Incense is not limited to smoke
In perfume, incense can create a resinous, dry, luminous or smoky impression depending on the material and its combinations. It does not necessarily suggest a solemn atmosphere. Compare your imagined associations with the actual smell: some creations evoke an airy space, while others favour balsamic warmth or more pronounced woody definition.
Follow its dialogue with other materials
Vanilla may soften incense, woods can emphasise dryness and an amber accord may deepen the impression. Try different constructions to identify what you want to retain from this note. A restrained first application lets you listen to nuances without deciding too quickly on the basis of an opening that feels more pronounced.